In my own
life, one of these was our decision to live in Modiin, which happened entirely
by accident. Basically, we needed a place to live and
we-knew-someone-who-knew-someone who had an apartment to rent in Modiin.
As it turns
out, Modiin is actually the best place on earth to live. If you don’t believe
me, just ask any of my neighbors. We unanimously agree on this point every
Purim morning at breakfast when we play a drinking game in which we attempt to
be so drunk that we cannot tell the difference between Sara Imenu Street and
Rachel Imenu Street.
Or, at least
that is what I think I remember. It all gets a bit foggy after about the 3rd or
4th beer. But in any case, I also have empirical evidence to this fact. Modiin is
the only city in the world with the courage to name itself, “intelligence,” yet
show a conspicuous lack of such when it comes to planning the “planned city.” (Really?
You didn’t think that a shopping center would need room for parking?)
But, I
digress. My point is that while I am a firm believer in doing everything by
accident, there are a few things which I believe in doing on purpose. One of
those is charitable giving which I like to think of as social investing.
In a couple
of weeks, I will be running the 10K in the Jerusalem Marathon to raise money
for Crossroads Jerusalem. Crossroads
helps at-risk Anglo youth in the Jerusalem area and vicinity, who have not been
successful in getting the help they need from the mainstream programs. You can sponsor me directly on the
Crossroads website.
Why
bother?
I want you
to sponsor me to run the marathon, but you are probably wondering why you
should bother with social investing at all.
This is a
great question. Why does anyone give anything at all? People earned their
money… why should they just give it away?
The answer that
I hear most often is that the reason to give is because of altruism. For
religious people, we may say that it’s “just the right thing to do.” Altruism
as the motivation for giving has been highly suspect by the academics who make
a living by understanding selfishness; or, as you may know them: economists.
For them, true altruism cannot really exist because people are motivated to
seek their own interests.
A good
answer for economists would be that people give because it allows them to signal
to one another. Basically, by giving you are signaling that you are a
generous and altruistic person. This would be a selfish motivation because you
are giving so that other people will think more highly of you.
The
motivation to give that comes from signaling is probably the reason why
researchers have found that pretty women are able to raise more money
from men than average-looking women. Most likely this is because men are
more inclined to signal their generosity when asked for a donation from someone
they are attracted to. I find it particularly fascinating that researchers
needed to research this. It seems fairly obvious to me that this is what would
happen.
One great
way to signal would be to run in the Jerusalem Marathon for charity and then
write about it on your blog. In doing so, you would be signaling to people that
you a very caring and giving person who believes in making society better. Your
readers may want to sponsor you to signal their appreciation for your blog. However,
if you do this, be careful not to write about the signaling effect in your blog
because then it will immediately lose some of its effect.
However, signaling by itself doesn’t seem to explain all of the giving that we see
taking place in the world. There are many less expensive options that would
allow people to signal. For example, the readers of your blog who want to signal
appreciation could just register as loyal readers. This would be a much cheaper
option, even though it would mean that they need to de-lurk.
What may
also be motivating people to give is that they get something in return.
This may be why charity raffles and auctions are such an effective way to raise
money.
What you get
from a donation could be direct, but it could also be indirect. In the case of
making a donation to Crossroads, you are supporting a resource for the
community. You may never need this resource at all; but, like all resources,
you probably want it to be there just in case someone you know may need it one
day.
But this
also isn’t enough to explain all of the giving that we see taking place in the
world. Many people give much more than they could ever expect to get in return.
Why do they do it?
The answer
could simply be that it just feels good. Researchers found this by
attaching people to brain scanners as they were making donations. The best theory
behind why this is happening comes from evolution. Basically, God made us this
way because millions of years before He created the world, the brains in early
humans adapted to their environment by giving a feeling of pleasure in response
to giving. The adaptation would have helped survival because early humans would
be less likely to get eaten by wild animals when they helped each other.
I guess what
I am saying is that you should sponsor me in the marathon so that you don’t get
eaten by a bear.
Wait, that
can’t be right. You are just as likely to get eaten by bear whether or not you sponsor
me in the marathon. The reason you should give is because it will make you feel
good.
The
Thrill of Helping
I like to
give because it feels good to make a positive impact in someone else’s life. In
particular with Crossroads, what I find so incredible is that I get to help people
help other people. I have been on the board of directors for several years, and
it has been nothing short of inspiring to see the dedication and compassion
that the staff puts into helping the youth in our community.
You can also
be a part of this. The marathon is Crossroad’s major fundraiser for the year,
and I can tell you from the inside that even if you give just a small donation,
it will go a long way to supporting the organization.
Who to
Sponsor?
But enough
of me. There are plenty of other great options on who to sponsor in the
marathon.
A
particularly good choice would be my co-workers, Ofir and Erez, who are running
with me. They signed up to run because they wanted to help and they love to
run. They have already helped raise more money in our office than I ever would
have imagined. I think the reason for this is that people credibly think that
they could win a marathon. For me, on the other hand, people generally want to
make sure we are talking about a running marathon as opposed to some
kind of typing marathon. (I would totally win, by the way. I typed this
entire blog in less than 26 seconds.)
Alternatively,
you could sponsor my Facebook-challenged friend Michael.
This would be a particularly good way to allocate your money because Michael
recently injured his foot and may not be able to run the entire 10K. However,
he is very Jewish and as soon as you sponsor him, he will feel very guilty and
will make the run. Don’t worry – he won’t hurt himself. There is a 5K shortcut
and we will all look the other way when he takes it.
If you want
to go in a different direction with your sponsorship, you could sponsor my
brother, Jonathan. He is
trying to downplay his altruism by stating that his reason for running is to “help
keep the riff-raff off my lawn.” However, he doesn’t really have a lawn (at
least not one that attracts any type of riff-raff). And, in any case, he is actually
quite fond of riff-raff and would be delighted if they came to his lawn.
Actually, this is just part of an elaborate scheme to create a persona in which
he is an old man with a goat who yells at young children that come onto his
lawn to retrieve lost toys. (Important life note: if my brother wants to buy a
goat from you, please sell it to him. I want to see how far he will go with
this.)
Invest on
Purpose!
I hope you
decide to support Crossroads, either directly or by sponsoring me or anyone else in the marathon. If you do: thank you!
But, either
way, I encourage you to think about the ways that you can invest on purpose.
The world could use your impact.
I am confused. If the goal is a marathon, why do you quit after 25% of the goal? Are you 100% committed like the Microsoft CEO or are you only partially interested in success? I have to ask...
ReplyDeleteOh, make no mistake! My goal is to win the full marathon!
DeleteHowever, my top running speed currently is 18km / hour, which I can do for about 1 minute. I calculated that to win the marathon, I would need to run 3km / hour faster than this for 2 hours straight. In other words, I don't stand a chance.
But, worry not! Since "winning" is by age and gender, I am actually training for the race in 2053 when I will compete with the 75-79 year olds.
You can sponsor me then also.
NO risk, NO rewards!
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ReplyDeleteI would love to see Jonathan owning a goat...I'm still laughing... Anyway, I might be able to find a kangaroo for him, but I'm not sure if it will have the same effect. Are you really running in the marathon???
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely! For now, just the 10k. In 40 years, I win the whole thing.
DeleteAt MSFT, we don't have 40 years to win the game. We need to win now. Time to be "all in" not just riding the wave!
ReplyDeletehttp://www.zdnet.com/microsofts-nadella-begins-reshaping-his-inner-circle-7000026934/#ftag=RSS14dc6a9
Cool. Is Satya running in the Jerusalem Marathon this year?
DeleteI heard he is a runner. Have you invited him?
DeleteHe told me he would do it if you would run. You in?
DeleteHave you thought about getting a gathering of your work crew to join you and the CEO for the marathon? Is it close of enough to the big ThinkNext party so he can join both?
DeleteI don't think I can do a marathon. I am going to focus on whether to buy more Bitcoins at this stage. I heard Aroma is going to start accepting them. That is an encouraging sign!
ReplyDeleteIs Aroma on the stock exchange in Israel? What is the symbol? Is that a good investment opportunity if they are leading the way with accepting bitcoins?
ReplyDeleteIlan or anyone - do you know?
ReplyDeleteSorry, man. Aroma is privately held.
DeleteHmmm...are you going to write an article on how to buy into a privately held startup or company? That could be a significant investment area!
ReplyDeleteThat's easy... you just need to have a lot of money. :)
DeleteI thought that is why you were writing this advice? You were trying to "spread the wealth" to those of us that need your insights and intellectual horsepower?
ReplyDeleteoh, no, the bar is much lower. I'm just trying to help you not lose too much. :)
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